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Book Resources:


Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy

by Francine Shapiro


The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living

by Chip Dodd

Partners/Spouses of Sex Addicts:

Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts

by Stephanie Carnes

Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts

by Stephanie Carnes. 

Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed

by Debra Laasar

Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal

by Barbara Steffens and Marsha Means

Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts

by Vicki Tidwell Palmer

Surviving Disclosure: A Partner's Guide for Healing the Betrayal of Intimate Trust

by Jennifer Schneider and Deborah Corley

Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal: The Essential Tools for Healing

by Dr. Kevin Skinner 

Stop Sex Addiction: Real Hope, True Freedom for Sex Addicts and Partners 

by Milton Magness

Sex Addiction: The Partner's Perspective: A comprehensive Guide to Understanding and Surviving Sex Addition for Partners and Those Who Want to Help Them

by Paul Hall


Intimate Deception: Healing The Wounds of Sexual Addiction

by Dr Sheri Keffer

Letters to a Sex Addict: The Journey through Grief and Betrayal 

by Wendy Conquest

Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating

by Robert Weiss

Pornography/Sexual Addiction:

Don't Call It Love: Recovery From Sexual Addiction

by Patrick Carnes

Facing the Shadows: Starting Sexual and Relationship Recovery

by Patrick Carnes

In the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Sexual Behavior

by Patrick Carnes and David Delmonico

Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction

by Patrick Carnes

Recovery Zone. Volume 1: Making Changes that Last - The Internal Tasks.

by Patrick Carnes

Wired For Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain

by William Struthers

Online Resources

Podcasts Specifically for Spouses:

Beyond Bitchy: Mastering the Art of Boundaries

by Vicki Tidwell Palmer

Podcasts for Spouse and Addict:

Thanks for Sharing

By Jackie P and Jon T (All things Recovery, Healing, and Relationship)

The Betrayed, The Addicted, & The Expert

Sex, Love, & Addiction: Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction

by Rob Weiss

Sexual Addiction: Strength Hope Recovery

by Carol the Coach

Internet Filters:

Covenant Eyes

Net Nanny

Qustodio Parental Control


Pornography/Sexual Addiction:

International Institute for Trauma and Addictions Professionals (IITAP)

sex addiction resources
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